Hmmmm - this is making me re-think my own plans. I have the power to file here right now if I chose to but am currently leaving it to WW to make that first move since it really makes no difference to how I live my life one way or the other.
I had been intending on not obviously dragging my heels but making sure that if she starts things that the mediation steps take a fair amount of time to allow for WW to back out and change her mind. I've worried that she'll be pushed into filing by her L and those enabling people around her and hoped that time would allow her to know her own heart in the matter.
She left 2 weeks ago to "escape the noise and make up her mind" but I have no idea if that is actually what she is doing. All indications from where I sit trying to drop the rope are that she's cut herself off from a lot of her former friends who were egging her on at least as well as me, S22 and D24. I have no clue if she's cut out OM or not. She said that she has the lease where she is until the end of September.
What is the thought of the community? If she starts the process, knowing full well that I have everything in place just let it flow through at speed or let it take time? Money is certainly a concern but my L assures me that doing nothing is relatively cheap.
Sorry for the thread hi-jack but still on topic.
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