With time, it gets more complicated

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melo please do not let her take advantage of your good nature .
I have a friend that gave in 15 years ago to this and has paid a heavy price for it ever since.
He has shared with me good advice so I do not fall into the same trap. I know it is hard as I to desperately wanted to just give her everything and I even said I would early on in my scripted lbh manner when the bad hit.
She has called me out on things I said in the heat of those moments.
But the truth is we are not thinking soundly and our pride can kick I when challenged on going back on our word.
But think of it this way.
The WAS has gone back on their word to love and cherish in good and bad, but they are not now are they? I am not saying that 2 wrongs make a right, but I am saying that do not let this get to you based on the simple priniple of our word.
Step back and get counsel legally so that emotions can be removed when you give your word.
This is key because everything that is decided now has long term implications and emotions and such will change.

Clear as mud right?

Stay strong .