So I talked to the W last night. She continues to say that I am shying away from talking to her. She continues to be angry about the alleged A, apparently I was cheating on her for years. This morning, as usual she made a big deal out of everything. She thinks tha t I am angry at her, she thinks that I am going back on my word about helping her with the rent. I just texted her that we will talk later. I'm thinking I will tell her that I am not running from her, I just don't know how to handle the rent thing. When I said it I was still thinking like a husband and I wasn't taking my needs into consideration. I want to tell her that I can give her another $100 in child support and she can use that for rent.
Why are you so worried about the things in blue?
- Did you have an affair? If not, who cares if she has convinced herself that you did.
- Are you acting angry at her? If not, then who cares if she thinks you are?
- Are you going back on your word about rent? It doesnt look like it to me.
You will NEVER be able to "explain your way out of" anything. You bend to her will today, you will continue doing it forever. What did you agree on? What did your lawyer advise?
Why on earth are you giving her more money than you are supposed to?
