I don't plan on trying to drag it out a) for financial reasons and b) because it would like SH said "throw gas on the fire"

I'm trying to not focus on it I still have like 18days to file my answer with the court and after that point whatever happens, happens.

I'm still focusing on me and being the best me I can be with or without W.
At this point I honestly think that the D will have to happen for there to be any chance of reconciling.

W:32 M:26
T:5 yrs M: 3 yr
BD: JUN 2016
W Moved out: early JUL 2016
W Filed for D: mid JUL 2016
EA: 06/16?
PA: 07/16
Moved in w/ ow: 07/16
D final: 10/16