And the divorce thing, I don't know I get what darkness said. I know my day-to-day life wouldn't change and I know it doesn't necessarily mean "THE END" in some super final way. It just still feels bad.
I never said it doesnt feel badly. My point was just that in the grand scheme of things, the actual divorce proceedings wont really impact you much. If you spend all of your energy working to "avoid the divorce" then your focus is in the wrong place.
