Just a thought. Dragging it out will only cost you money and perhaps throw gas on the fire for your S.
Around here it is most often said, a d is nothing more that a piece of paper. Keeping that in mind will help your perception as nothing changes with or without it. If a piece of paper were the secret to a strong healthy MR, we would all be happy. But it is not. Another thing that is often asked, and I ask you now. What would be different right now for you if you already were D? I get the fear of a speedy d, but it is not the end if you choose not to let it be. Reconciliations still happen after a d.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
