and the worst part is MI is a no fault state so, since we don't have kids, there's only a minimum wait period of 60 days! That's no time at all!!!
The other thing that's been messing with me is that, I've always been someone who is pretty intuitive I ALWAYS trust my guy/instinct/intuition whatever you want to call it. And it is right 99% of the time. And lately I keep having this really intense feeling that W wants to come home, I've tried ignoring it because I don't want to get my hopes up for this especially since my intuition doesn't have a calendar so it could be some time in the future. But the more I try to ignore it the more prominent the feeling becomes. I've even started dreaming about it on a regular basis and it is seriously messing with my mind.
I hear you on this. Yesterday morning I could actually feel W give me a hug and kiss goodbye even though she's been gone for 2 weeks now.
With regards to the D - don't imagine that you have to abide by the minimum wait time if you don't want to. You can drag it out for as long as you like I'm sure. Your L will very likely be more than happy to slowly send letters asking for clarification of this comma or that apostrophe as long as you keep paying their bill.
It's something that I'm struggling with as well. As part of my LRT and for my own sanity I have the divorce papers already filled out and showed them to W when she told me she was leaving for real this time. I did tell her quite emphatically though that that was not a path I wanted to take. Today is the first day that it would be possible for me to receive a letter from her L on moving the process forward. I'm not sure if I'll rush it along or drag it out. First I would want to actually talk to W and see what her wishes are. I've told myself that I can wait out her trying to decide where her heart lies while working on finding myself.
Good luck on the vacation - I'm off next week myself for the annual week that I take around my own anniversary.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells
