Yeah Gump, I know it is a nightmare and I was silly to not pull back earlier she genuinely doesn't understand why we can't be friends and even got angry and said "so what if I'm not with you I can't have anyone else" she actually said that on the day she told me about OM I think the only reason she told me is because she felt guilt or thought someone else would see them and tell me.
I only get her 1 night a week because I work full time and she doesn't. If I pushed for 50/50 I would have to et other people to look after D anyway.
Yeah the whole I don't care if you hate me is her wanting me to say I do hate her to make her feel better about her decision to leave. I won't do it.
But I really need to just forget she exists for the moment way easier said then done
ME- 31 W-25 T-5 M-3 D2 ILYBNILWY and moved out - FEB16 W seeing someone else - JUL16
