Originally Posted By: albac
After my W left 6 months ago she has now told me 2 weeks ago she is seeing someone else ...


Truly 5ucks. That is my ultimate nightmare.... I wonder why she felt she needed to tell you that info? ... but then it sounds like she's still very engaged with you as a friend. I hate to say this because I think I'm in a similar situation myself but I think you have to do a more complete job of detaching yourself and going dark. Don't let her think you're still her best friend. She'll keep seeing you as in a "brother-sister" relationship. She's still emotionally cake-eating by leaning on you for emotional support.

"Even if you hate me" ... all that talk sounds like she's trying to soothe her own guilt.

Remind me ... how come you only got 1 day access to your D2? Why not 3.5 days, 50-50 custody?


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final