I know I have a solid job earning good money, a house for my D ... if she doesn't come back I will actually be better of in all other aspects of my life.
You probably know this but your WW/WAW doesn't give $#@! about that. Her head is completely elsewhere. She doesn't care about those practical benefits.... Just speaking from my own experience, where my WW/MLC has really poor life skills/financial skills... but she doesn't care....
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final