Quote: According to the C, my W is pretty damn guilty of some toxic behaviors.
Whoa, Dave... WATCH OUT! Do NOT assume, first of all, that any particular C actually knows what they're doing... they're playing with your life, after all. MAKE SURE that W isn't going to walk into a mine field, and end up feeling attacked and blindsided. Recipe for disaster! It sounds like, on the basis of hearing YOUR side of the story, this C is willing to "blame" your W for everything. Hope it's not like that, but your post sounds that way. I can't imagine anything more vicious. Therapy can be a good tool, BUT it can also lead to irreperable damage. Just be careful, that's all...
