Surfer -- reading between the lines of your post, that's the essence of becoming a man only a fool would leave, isn't it? They may be fools, unfortunately, but ultimately that will be their lasting problem, not ours.
lt0402 -- handling anything perfectly in all of this would be a first for me. Two years of bumbling around like a cliche. Ouch!
You and me both bud! Perfect seems to be out of reach for me at the moment, so I hear you there, but I think you are spot on with this approach. It does almost feel like we are starring in a reality tv show sometimes with the over the top stuff that happens. Maybe we need to shop a DB based reality show to a network or TMZ. I see dollar signs!
Keep chugging along JRuss, it might not seem like it but sounds like you are in a good place with yourself!
Me39 M11 : T13 D9 BD 5/31/16 In House S until 6/21/17 Divorced 10/5/18