AndrewP, I think that's where I'm headed. I've started doing that with the projects...wife asked if I was going to mow the lawn. I said I didn't have time since we were out of town all weekend. I offered that the mower was gassed up if she wanted to mow it while I was at work (she's a teacher off for the summer).
While I was out of the country, I gave her the roofer contact to have our house roofed from the hail storms we had a couple months back. She didn't get very far on it.
Small things like that. I honestly don't have the inclination to bust my a## on projects for her if she's going to continue this way. She's taken me for granted way too long.
M 17 years 3 kids EA start 2010 ILYBNILWY 1/2014 PA 1/2016 Bomb drop 2/2016 Renig on Bomb drop 4/2016 Living as roommates, EA continues