Tate - I would suggest that the next 180 you do - which will perhaps be the hardest yet - is that you act as if you've written her off. Be a good Dad to your kids and essentially ignore her as if she's not there. Whatever you do, don't check to see if she is noticing and "when" she complains etc just shrug your shoulders, pretend you are a teenager and say "whatever". This would also be one of the first steps towards detaching.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells
