Ups and downs, HH, ups and downs. Steps forward, followed by steps back. Seems to be the way of things. Don't lose heart. I'm expecting some setbacks in my own sitch, and will be VERY pleasantly surprised if there aren't any. W has yet to read the Dr. Phil book, although just last week she bought the one by Suzanne Sommers about aging, and seems to be devouring that first. Patience...