Added some history to my signature. Long story short, story book romance followed by marriage then chased our dreams. Kids soon thereafter and things started to change after the second was born. Found several journal entries indicating she did not want a second child (NIGHTMARE!!).
My father died.
Her father died.

SO much pain in such a short time, no way to recover and stabilize emotionally and things started to spiral. Worked like crazy to try and recover but it appeared as thought the MLC was settling in and "nothing was ever good enough".

GALing like crazy with tons of 180s. As time in the separation passes, less communication (painful) along with markedly less time with the boys (heartbreaking).

At the moment, no idea what is going on. Essentially, completed abandoned her family (including two puppies).


W:51 M:50
T:19 yrs M: 17 yrs
S15 S11
BD: April 2016 ("too much tension")
Moved out: early June 2016
Filed for D: early June 2016