Surfer -- reading between the lines of your post, that's the essence of becoming a man only a fool would leave, isn't it? They may be fools, unfortunately, but ultimately that will be their lasting problem, not ours.

lt0402 -- handling anything perfectly in all of this would be a first for me. Two years of bumbling around like a cliche. Ouch!


Me: 46
W: 44
Married: 17
Together 21
D13; S10
BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you)
Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage
Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)