Surfer -- reading between the lines of your post, that's the essence of becoming a man only a fool would leave, isn't it? They may be fools, unfortunately, but ultimately that will be their lasting problem, not ours.
lt0402 -- handling anything perfectly in all of this would be a first for me. Two years of bumbling around like a cliche. Ouch!
Me: 46 W: 44 Married: 17 Together 21 D13; S10 BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you) Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)