Originally Posted By: JRuss

That said, we got physical this AM (she initiated). This was much less awkward and weird than at the beach. Trying to stay detached and not pursue, which would be a 180 for me. I usually would have tried to follow up to consolidate some sort of relationship gain/improvement by talking about our R or some such or just done a lot of texting and/or e-mailing in a bid to stay connected. I'm expecting some distancing this evening when we get home from work and hope not to let it get me down.


JRuss, I think you're handling this perfectly. It would be a very well timed 180 and I think you're setting your expectations appropriately so that you don't revert back from the 180 when she gets home.

I also agree on the small number of human males that are better fits for our Ws. I don't think our Ws fully grasp their extensive list of requirements. Guess it's a grass is greener thing.

Regardless, you're approaching today's 180 spot on from what I can tell. Keep at it brother!


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M11 : T13
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In House S until 6/21/17
Divorced 10/5/18