Sandi2 - I know you're 100% right. I need to detach, back-away, GAL, and 180. But because of my past damaging anger/rage issues and not talking to her long periods of time, I feel like W is going to think more of the same and backfire on me.
I know what has proven to work is paradoxical to what I want to do. That night where were in bed, was the first night of closeness in months and because she told me she wants to end the M made me more emotional in the process.
Honestly, my head is spinning and I need for myself and for my kids to get my act together
