To continue the above...My wife has said in the past that she would be perfectly happy living alone the rest of her life. I believe her.
All of this is based on friendships she has forged over the last 6 years or so at my expense. Of course, the irony is that exposing her affairs would cause her to lose most of these relationships as they are with my side of the family...and others that would not welcome her anymore.
This is why I'm being very careful...maybe too much so...as to not make decisions on revenge or out of anger.
M 17 years 3 kids EA start 2010 ILYBNILWY 1/2014 PA 1/2016 Bomb drop 2/2016 Renig on Bomb drop 4/2016 Living as roommates, EA continues