To continue the above...My wife has said in the past that she would be perfectly happy living alone the rest of her life. I believe her.

All of this is based on friendships she has forged over the last 6 years or so at my expense. Of course, the irony is that exposing her affairs would cause her to lose most of these relationships as they are with my side of the family...and others that would not welcome her anymore.

This is why I'm being very careful...maybe too much so...as to not make decisions on revenge or out of anger.


M 17 years
3 kids
EA start 2010
ILYBNILWY 1/2014
PA 1/2016
Bomb drop 2/2016
Renig on Bomb drop 4/2016
Living as roommates, EA continues