In reality people like Doodler, Sandi, Job, so so many, have provided such inspiration for me. You will find your way. Listen to them. They are the voice of wisdom when you are in the fog of mayhem.
I learned that advice might come from friends or family. Everyone is an expert on these situations 'relationships'. But in reality, unless they have lived it, or are trained in it (I have my views on the ability of those that have trained but not lived in 'it') theory are not qualified. I know that these vets know.
Read, keep reading and post. That's the only way to engage. Some comments might might not hit the mark. That's okay. Just keep going. You will get there.
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