There are probably a relatively small number of human males scattered around this earth that might be truly better for my wife than I am. Do I think that my wife would have any real actuarial shot at blundering into one of them, here, in this midsized southern city...? I do not.
This was good for me to hear. I'm persuaded that my situation is similar.
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final