ForGump -- I think no contact would be much harder, and I really feel for you. Yes, it messes with your mind when physical things happen, and, yes, it makes detaching very difficult, but I still think of myself as fortunate, for sure. Ultimately I conclude that it can't really be completely meaningless for her, and so I have some hope. Not an expectation, and not a lot of hope, but, still, a little hope, and that helps. Except on days when it doesn't. Hang in here, Man.


Me: 46
W: 44
Married: 17
Together 21
D13; S10
BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you)
Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage
Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)