Yes during the talk last night I had a chance to address the tantrum. W hates that word, and refuses to accept what she did as a tantrum but W admits she didn't handle it well and apologized. Although it took a while to come to that. She had some skewed view that needed me to help clean before she apologized for her behavior. Haha, nope. Thanks again Sandi. Everything you are saying makes perfect sense now. I'm really starting to get in that mental space I need to be in.