My almost 1yr Annivesary (Success!)

[Cherry]

Just reading over your post.
I understand that it can be hard for you guys with success to come back and see the hurt and hear the same stories over and over and relive the same hurt. Like cutting open a wound I guess.

Your insight is great though. It gives me possible hope. My m is very much on the rocks, and h has been researching a d. At first I felt helpless. But just reading that the key to your success' is when you well and truly let that spouse go for a while, and turn the focus inwards. That is where I feel myself right now. I feel like I'm truly trying to save myself now, and took the focus off him.

I can only pray that I make it to here one day and join you guys, but in the meantime- I'm going to work on me.