Newby here, desperate for some advice (thread 2)

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I don't think my W could really get it out of her head that she'd be better off with someone else until she's actually tried being with someone else. And I don't think it's something she'd realize after being w/ that someone else for a day or two. I think she'd have to be with that person for years, to realize she'd arrived at the same place as she has with me. Plus, I think there is some chance that the new guy might actually be better than me. I hate to admit it, but I don't want to presume that I am absolutely the 100% best partner for her. Do you believe you're absolutely the best person for your W?