Awkward situation

[Tate]

So, today is an example of a situation I was trying to avoid. My wife wanted to take my suburban to haul kids bikes to the park. She didn't tell me this or ask for the keys which I have with me. She called me at work looking for the keys and was mad that I did not leave them with her.

Now, I really don't want her driving the suburban if she doesn't have to...see she's had 3 car accidents and 2 speeding tickets since dropping the D bomb in February. She drove the suburban for 2 months and managed to leave the the doors open on it an entire day while she was at work, and she managed to crash it into a parked truck. A week later, she backed her Suv into a van. The short is that she has been careless and I don't want the suburban wrecked again. I made the mistake of mentioning this to her.

As she began chewing me out on the phone, starting with the words, "this is why I hate you...", my boss walked up to review a presentation. I asked if there was anything else,but she continued ranting...I was forced to hang up on her.

The text I received after basically stated that my attitude is what has destroyed our marriage, that this is why things will never be the way I want them between us, and that "I made my own bed."

My response via text was. That I did not mean to insult her, that I had to meet with my boss, and that I'm a good person and I'm sorry she cannot see that.

Thoughts?