Newcomer, anniversary

[ForGump]

NVBH -- you should think twice about sending that message to your W. Look at what Wonka suggested here:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2694162&#Post2694162

That kind of message would be better, where you did not engage in a discussion about your R at all. But it all depends on what your W sent in the first place, which I don't think you provided......