Natus, sounds like you're making good progress with the detaching! I don't have a lot for you around the detaching part as I'm still trying to find my way, but wanted to swing by and support you bud.
Probably need to be careful on the dating stuff would be all I'd offer. DDJ seems to have a good grasp on it. I can see from my own situation how things would end up in the same place were I not fully "fixed" before I started seeing other people again. All about patience and comfort that you're good to go w/ yourself as a person and man.
Keep it up brother. Making great progress is sounds like!
Me39 M11 : T13 D9 BD 5/31/16 In House S until 6/21/17 Divorced 10/5/18