With time, it gets more complicated

[SH_]

I called her from NYC to talk to my S, she wanted to small talk, how my trip was, how my cousin was doing and I gave short answers and just asked to talk to my S, she put him on and when we were done I hung up. I had been short with her for a few weeks, she interpreted it as anger, when I addressed it before, she became nicer and said she understood.I didn't contact her again until yesterday. She didn't try to contact me either so I am not ignoring her, just not initiating contact.

If you discussed previously why would you fee, the need to do so again?
The goal is to be mysterious and create intrigue by taking this approach.
As darknes mentions, stay on the line in the middle. Do not ignore, but do not initiate.
Better stated, be upbeat, mysterious and kind in your comunica.
Review the info in DB on this part of the LRT.

If you already shared why you are minimizing communication (which may not be suggested as you should be taking action over words) then she is aware.
melo, keep reading DR as it is important you truly understand the why behind the what.

Sometimes folks in here seem to just do what is suggested, get uptight when there is not an immediate result or a result different than they hoped for and then either blame the advice, change gears on what they are doing, and then fall back into what they were already doing.
I can't emphasize enough the value of the principles in DR.

Start with a beginners mindset. Stay out of cheeseless tunnels. Set goals. Watch and adjust as you go.

Stick to your communication approach. Tweak it to ensure you are kind and not cold. Stay mysterious. Read DR more so you understand the why behind the what.
You are S from W. You are in LRT and 180 territory. Memorize the info in DR.

Also, keep coming here with questions, and what you are doing for you and becoming the man only a fool would leave.
I'll swing back to chat with ya about your Ted Talk learnings. Good stuff you shared.

You got this brother.