I've known it all along but was finally able to confirm when I drove past her tonight and she turned on the street where his new place is. He was just here yesterday saying he wants to come home and we had started going to counseling together. I confronted both of them tonight and I handled the entire situation with class and maturity even though I wanted to gouge both of their eyes out. I have a beautiful little girl who looks up to me and because of that i need to act with composure and grace. He's a liar, and he has completely broken my heart. There is no co- parenting. He does nothing for our daughter besides come and see her a few hours a week. And I bet he does that just to say he sees her. He hasn't ever taken care of her, emotionally or financially.

Why couldn't he have just been honest from the beginning? Then maybe we could've had an amicable split- for the baby's sake of nothing else. Now it's going to be ugly


Me: 37
Husband: 35
Married 5 years, together 13
Daughter - 1
Bomb dropped - 12/28/2015
He's moving out (officially) - 4/15/2016
EA confirmed 6/1/16
PA confirmed 8/1/16