Going Dark / NC has been surprisingly easy.

We dont text or communicate much apart from exchanging photos of our son via whatsapp (when she has him and vice versa). I prefer it that way. I really dont feel the need to converse with her about anything at the moment and i know how to raise my son so i dont need to ask her for anything in that regards.

Engaged a financial health advisor trying to sort out my finances. Hoping to sell the house soon and start fresh.


Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs
23Mar16-BD
9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss.
27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM.
14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation.
24May17-Divorced.