Evening, thanks for the frank reply. I have read the DR book but not DB (ordered it). In fact, I went back through the DR book this evening trying to find a reference to a mother not desiring to see the children any longer in the midst of divorce.
At this point, my youngest just does not want to have anything to do with her (they have seen each other for less than 10 hours in the past three weeks). In the past, that would have made her so upset but it does not seem to even phase her now.
Cannot wait to read DB. The search for perspective continues.
W:51 M:50 T:19 yrs M: 17 yrs S15 S11 BD: April 2016 ("too much tension") Moved out: early June 2016 Filed for D: early June 2016