Ok so I think I messed up. My W had apologized for everything that she did, she was contrite, she would offer me food, she would want to talk at 11pm after texting me, she would stand at the doorway when I left and when I went to NY last week, she texted asking me to tell her when I got there, even though I wasn't really talking to her that much.While on the trip I stopped talking to her, texting her. I recently texted her regarding the kids' birthday and she gave me some attitude. I feel like she was headed in the right direction before and by ignoring her without saying anything, I shut her down. Maybe I should tell her why I stopped talking instead of just continuing to ignore her.
