Talked to W, her main concerns are about what is said to D, or around her. I agreed with W, she even staid "stop telling me I'm right" I validated her feelings a lot. I told her we would stop having boundary conversarion, she said "then show me" I really think she's back to the stranger W after she freaked out that we had too many good days and she was normal W.
We did not touch on the marriage.
We concluded with I need to show her, stick to the schedule, I want to be a good Parent, we are in same page, no more circle talks, & we are "friends".
Made an appointment with a coach. I need serious help. I thought things were going good and bam. Another crappy day almost done.