WOW! That was fabulous. Much better than my version.

Thanks so much.

So here is another observation. Wife moves out early June. As time has passed, she has increasingly spent less time with the 2 boys (15, 11) to a point where they have been with me for a week and she did not come get them the day before yesterday (no calls, no nothing, total silence). Anyone experience this?

Seems so not what she was as a mother.

W:51 M:50
T:19 yrs M: 17 yrs
S15 S11
BD: April 2016 ("too much tension")
Moved out: early June 2016
Filed for D: early June 2016