You do sound a little in the dumps. Sweetheart, I am 62 and had one date.
You only need one super duper date who likes you and that you like. Only one, not lots and lots.
For men it's a numbers game I think, it's about going to target rich environments.
Are you the best you can be? Healthy, great weight, solvent?
Where are you searching for your dates?
Have you done meetups? Dancing?
Things that women like and places they go to?
Want a drinker, clumber then go to clubs, but that's not going to get you quality girlfriend material.
I met WH when I was 58, ok so bad example maybe.
What do you like to DO? What excites you in your life? Have you gone on singles holidays? Have you volunteered?
Do you chat to people easily?
I expect to have a third age lover or two, absolutely I do. Possibly another H in the wings. If a woman isn't ready to date you she is doing you a big favour saying no.
What is your wish list in a mate? Two legs and lady bits isn't enough. Heck if waywards can creep up on the unattached and pull so can you.
Do you have a wing man or woman?
Your dating skills may need honing a little. Try googling superdate and superflirt. Can you read attraction signals? Do you seduce, how is your big beaming smile. There are dating coaches who will help you and I don't mean slimy pulling ones that play games.
There are amazing beautiful women withat loving hearts wanting the same. The trick is to find those and not the others. Heck there are lovely ladies just waiting for you to ask.
You do seem very down and I guess your xWW still being in her scummy R isn't helping you. Wish her well be pleased for her, have you detached, when you are dating is xWW your preoccupation?
It might be from the hints you have given the choice of woman that attracts you. If you keep doing that which you have always done you may keep getting the same result.
It may be that you need to search deeper into your soul.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
