Michlynn, you must be one tough lady to have lived through all of that. I have actually been to angerbusters.com and downloaded some stuff from there a few weeks back.
Most of my anger came in the form of verbal abuse, there was some physical, but it was mostly verbal and that was my way of withdrawing, so I'm finding out. I know that my wife is scared to "recommit" because she has told me as much and all I can do is show her that it will not happen again. One of the things that has come about form all of this is that I can no longer discipline my 4 year old daughter via spanking because I can't stand to see her in pain, and my relationship with her has gotten stronger and I will not go back on a vow to my little girl. I really hope you and your husband can work this out and I hope he finally overcomes his demons, because I am finding out that life is to short to go through it hating everyone and everything.
"Anyone who is among the living, has hope." (Eccl 9:4)
