Yes I see that now. No more talks and back to work!
Damn. I didn't even see that as an opportunity to set a boundary. I viewed it as a an olive branch when she is just cake eating. I'll keep an eye out for this!
I started to clean up and fall into the same old patterns of catering to her tantrums. But I stopped myself. But then again yes, I went to her to talk about it...I should have left it until she came to me. I've got work to do. She disrupted my DB progress by getting "back together" with me. I'm really pissed off about it despite my light posts. I don't think it is funny, I just use humor to mask the frustration when posting and talking to other people about it. I deal with the pain more on my own, which I am working on as well. I am making boundaries my new goal. I have set some basic ones with her already like privacy and not asking me about my phone anymore. But I wIll decide on some bigger ones to put in place that I have neglected to do.
