Thanks everyone. Back home and W asked again if we could meet up to talk about her flat idea.To sort it out I agreed, wearing a new polo and a new haircut which she noticed. We talked for an hour I said no to any future investing together and would she really want to live opposite me and new lady? She asked about the flat I said of course 50% is hers. Did she want me to sell it? No. I reminded how fairly I've always treated her and if she found herself on the streets we'd talk again. Time to focus on paying for S's education and supporting him.We argued briefly over the monthly payment, she deducted something I had already paid. She said it is difficult for her. Well you left me! She is going to look again so no doubt I'll get a new calculation tomorrow. Rest of the time she wanted to chat so I did. Told her about nice times with S some good things about work and running. She asked was I better? I said I didn't understand what she meant but I'm moving on with life. Pointed out that she left and we didn't need to be in constant contact. Constant no but she likes to know what we are doing. She wanted the car but I said no as I'm going away ( quick visit to parents) from Wednesday to Sunday. Where? Didn't say. I said I'm sure she can look after S for 5 days. she compliained she never has the car. Yes but who paid the insurance and is getting it serviced? Complained S doesn't tell her anything. Said I couldn't do anything to sort out their relationship. Told her a few snippets about how great he is. Lots of small talk. She decided to tell me she's tired and anemic. At the end went to leave and she pulled me back for the long hug. What's that for?Smile and quick kiss. Means nothing to me. Feel relieved that nothing major has to happen at the moment and almost too pleased with the way it went


Me:48
W:45
S:15
M:17
T: 25
Separated: Oct 2015