I guess the big question is aside from telling or not telling my sister, is there anything else I should be doing in dealing with my wife?

The conversation keeps coming back to my sister...that is on hold for a bit while I reason through all of the consequences.

My wife and I get along great in daily interactions, but she swears she will never want to work on our relationship, get close to me, or love me again. When asked what her plans are if things continue the way they are, she simply responds with an I don't know.


M 17 years
3 kids
EA start 2010
ILYBNILWY 1/2014
PA 1/2016
Bomb drop 2/2016
Renig on Bomb drop 4/2016
Living as roommates, EA continues