You need to stay out of the cheeseless tunnels and avoid doing what you feel is right and focus on doing what works. You will appreciate the outcomes much more down the road. And believe everyone here, it is a long road. You can make the journey more pleaseing if you listen up now and go against your instincts. Think about it this way. If you had been going against your instincts more often leading up to this point, you may be in a different place.
Focus on you and let her run her own course. I know it feels wrong, but the principle is right my DB friend. This is about doing what works, not what feels good.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
