My H told me that he feels pressure from me to decide what he wants. This is based on my looking into his eyes and staring at him. (He is quite good looking, who can blame me?)
It was hard, but I have learned to not look at him. I think perhaps I sometimes go to the opposite extreme and never look at him.
Definitely do not move out, just listen to what she is saying to you, it's valuable. She told you what she needs, give it to her. Stop pressuring her by doing those things (looking at her) and keep DBing.
