So glad you posted with an update. I am very happy that you are consistently doing well in your new relationship and with your children. It's nice to hear this. Some one said that we have a choice post BD to wallow in misery or choose to be happy. Lots to be said for that. Why is the choice for happy harder though? Makes no sense.

"How badly I wanted to reconcile with someone who wasn't worth my time"

You know, I share this sentiment regarding any spouse that cheats. No one should put up with that.

Take care and loved hearing from you!


Me: 42
H: 43
Twins age 5
Physically Separated 7/2015