A new thread for Eye-Tie

[EyeTie]

So it's been a while, figured I would drop in for a quick update.

Life is good. Still with J, have my kids about 60% of the time, sold my marital house and divorce will FINALLY be done at the end of September.

Even today, I can't believe what has happened over the last (almost) 2 years and how different life can be. I find myself chuckling sometimes at how bad things were back when this journey started, how weak I felt, how badly I wanted to reconcile with someone who wasn't worth my time.

My WW has been a complete conundrum (and will continue to be) over everything. I really believe she has a mental disorder and its sad to see her spiral the way she has. She is still with her BF, but he works out of town so she finds herself alone. For every 3 calls/texts she makes to me, I answer 1. Not intentionally, I just outgrew it all. Best way to deal with the roller coaster is to get off of it.

Anyway, to anyone new to this, keep your head up. There is a ton of knowledge on here and most importantly, instead of focusing on your spouse, focus inward to yourself.