Friday night she says she would like to sleep in our bed and be close, but not have sex as that is moving too fast. I said ok, but she changed her mind by bed time, so I said ok haha. Saturday night she plops her pillow into our bed and climbs in. Hmm, ok. We watch a movie together until I was too tired and fell asleep. Hmm nice, ok. Since we've been going through other things including guests staying at the house for a few days, I've been helping out cleaning and taking care of the kids. I had just washed dishes Saturday night which she thanked me for. Lastnight she threw a tantrum over dishes and house work not being done. She stormed out of the house and stayed out for a short time. She could have asked for help, but she decided to make it into a bigger issue. She also chose to forget how much I've been helping out lately. I actually took out the trash and started to clean up...then I stopped when I realized I was rewarding this behavior. I decided to let her figure it out. I got dinner for the kids and when I got home she was already back. She said thanks for helping me make my decision. Omg haha, I had to laugh mentally, although I could have laughed out loud since she usually pokes her head in and storms off for comments like that. I came over thinking I could talk to her, but she said "dont, I know what you are doing. You're trying to play with my mind". I told her I'm not the one throwing tantrums. So needless to say I slept by myself again, which has become a lot more comfortable than it used to be.
