So, I realized the hardest thing about exposing my wife would be the effect on my kids. I simply cannot take them to see family as often as my wife.
The only thing keeping me from exposing my wife are my kids and I just cannot get myself to hurt them. Im really distressed over this situation to the point of losing sleep over it this week...
So, are you saying that you will continue to tolerate this A, b/c otherwise, your kids won't get to see their cousins as often?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
