she seems to be distancing herself further from me
OK. Ive heard you saying this over and over and over again for months now. Some actual questions:
1) You mention there was an EA/possible EA/whatever last fall. I remember something about a locked ipad. What ever happened with all that?
2) Your W was going out to clubs until very late many weekends such that you felt you were a babysitter. What is the latest on that?
3) Your W was hiding huge stacks of money. What is the latest on that? Are her paychecks accounted for now?
You say she is distancing from you, but these behaviors seem to have stopped over the last many months. Even if there were progress, I dont think you would see it as you are so wrapped up in this narrative.
As for you, why arent I hearing about your tennis or your ballroom dancing anymore? And every time I hear about the gym, it's "I started, but Im not doing a very consistent job at it". What will it take for you to really work on you?
