The only thing keeping me from exposing my wife are my kids and I just cannot get myself to hurt them. Im really distressed over this situation to the point of losing sleep over it this week...
I dont know. Its not going to get better you know, infact now that she knows she can get away with it and that you will kowtow to her i wouldnt be surprised if she takes it to another level with her outside relationships.
She doesnt respect you, your M or your kids. She just wants everything the way she wants it. I went through the same thing. You will be amazed at how these wayward spouses thinks.
Just to share, despite reading everyone elses threads, i believed my w was different. Boy was i wrong. She just hid it better, mine even acted wifey that i deluded myself into thinking we could be piecing. It took awhile for me to see through the smokescreen.
You have yet to see through the smokescreen, she will use everything. Thread of divorce, kid maybe, ruining your life maybe with false accusations, threats (which she is already doing now).
I feel for you cause i am/went through the same boat.
Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs 23Mar16-BD 9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss. 27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM. 14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation. 24May17-Divorced.
