I'm not sure but I may be feeling myself slowly falling out of love. Hard to say because it's a rollercoaster ride. Sometimes I feel like I'm less into her, yet other times I feel like my heart's going to explode from losing her, or thinking about her w/ someone else.
I do believe that much of good, long-term love is built through deliberate choices and actions, and that it's not all just some magical chemistry. (Something I don't think my W believes in, at least not as much as I do). So it makes sense to me that if a H & W make choices to distance themselves form each other -- like having an A or doing GAL and going dark -- that our feelings might start to fade a little as well.
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final
